If you ever sit and imagine the pre-corporate world, a typical family would look like a man handling the locusts and storms that are attacking his family and the woman running the house smoothly enough. The additional recipe for this family was elder parents full of wisdom and guiding the family members with the kids learning and playing around. That’s how it used to be.
Almost all families are self-sufficient earlier. Everyone is an entrepreneur in some way or the other. In a non-nuclear family, if anyone fell sick, the elder ones used to make medicines out of herbs available. In the case of monetary needs, the whole family contributed their money to mitigate the monetary problems. Now everyone runs to banks or credit cards for their monetary needs. If you have any health issues the family members who are living with you have to contribute to your medical bills. And when they do that and you're sure that they will be helping you, you don’t need to subscribe for Health Insurance. These are all not just fancy examples but this is how it used to be. To break the families means to break the sufficiency among themselves. Once that self-sufficiency in the family is broken then the newly formed nuclear families will go searching outside for help, that’s where corporations come into play. Most of the corporations today run on helpless nuclear families' money.
Believe me, I have just given the example of these health care services, financial institutions, and insurance services. There are a lot more businesses that run on nuclear families' money. They want the families to be more nuclear so that they can use this to their advantage.
Today the home is not built on trust, love, and care. It is built on marketing. If you have a cold and fever, no your grandma won’t make an herbal medicine but you buy a tablet for it instead. If you are weak in your studies, your mom won't teach you or guide you through it but you have to buy a course instead.
In its most advancing stage of breaking families, now corporations want to break even these nuclear families into individual human beings. To break these nuclear families, The big corporates through their marketing and media brainwashed women into believing that she is disrespected or degraded by just being the support role of her family. By taking the woman out of the family matrix, they are breaking even the nuclear family.
We all know that to become a family there needs to be a Man and a Woman. The corporates wanted to break the home and they chose the woman as the prime weapon for it. Why would they do that? you may ask. Remember more individual human beings means more employees, they are not bound by the family. More individual units of humans mean more helpless beings. Humans are social animals. Humans are strong when they come as a society. But breaking that society into a family, breaking the family into nuclear ones, and now breaking even those nuclear families into individual units will inevitably turn humans lonelier and more helpless. There are not just insurance or pharma industry but there are a lot of industries that run on helpless individual beings. They usher the fake feeling of independence and equality in the minds of women. In the name of independence, they are making women enter the corporations to work for their boss. With the present-day education system, they have already turned men into working robots. In the name of equality, women also are slowly made to be detached from their families from supporting women to turn them into the same state as men. (The working robots)
They are making a woman turn her loyalty towards her employer rather than her family. Now, a modern-day woman says I'm not a support to be used in the family. She says she got her independence and that now she no longer needs to serve her husband and her kids. Now, she lives alone in a given apartment. But you and I know that the family expects the same support she is providing to her employer but in return, the family gives her much more than her employer can ever think of.
These modern-day women may think that they are happy and independently earning at the age of 25-30. They may laugh at the girl who is married at the age of 25. But believe me, once this modern woman enters into her 30s, she will feel a need for a family. It’s a fact that women who are in their 30s have a lower fertility rate than women in their 20s. but she can't go back to her tender age to get married. She has to settle for the available man. She can't choose her man. It’s obvious that a man wants to marry a more fertile woman. He would preferably choose a woman of 25 years over a corporate working woman of 30 years. And if a man chooses an woman of 30 years over and woman of 25 years because that woman have a good corporate job, then you know what kind of man he is. And by the way, the woman who is unmarried in her 30s is more miserable than the one who had an unsuccessful marriage.
I'm not advising women to leave the job they have now and to go sit in the corner of the room. Yes, you have to earn a living. But it should not be the top priority for you when it comes to your personal or family life. I'm just acknowledging what’s happening around us and advising you to avoid fancy trends and mainstream media. The thing is any woman should not destroy herself, her soul, her actual self, in the false sense of building her career. That’s it.
If you consider Asian or African countries except from top-tier cities you don’t feel these things around you. But they are already creeping into Tier 1 cities. If you consider the Western world, they are already lost in this game. There are no families or countable even if they do exist. So, I just wanted to sound an alarm on the upcoming calamity of this degeneracy.
Also by the way, I'm not the one who hates the corporates but I just don't want only the corporates to thrive by disintegrating the families. I want the corporates to thrive while we have blossoming families.
Hare Krishna.
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